LovesEssence

We can learn that the essence of love is not to use the other to make us happy but to serve and affirm the one we love. And we can discover, to our surprise, that what we have needed more than anything was not so much to be loved as to love.
Robert Johnson

PhysicalLove

Love is physical
U feel it in ur stomach when u cant eat
U feel it in ur heart when it beats faster
U feel it in ur lungs when u cant breathe
U feel it in your tongue when u cant speak
U feel it in ur legs when u cant stand
U feel it in ur eyes when u cant sleep
U feel it in ur head when all u do is think abt him...

JustAThought

Somebody said that missing someone is not an indication that you need to be with them.

But then what is an indication that you need someone?
God made Eve for Adam from Adam...
They both knew they were each others...
Eve never had a chance to miss him or wonder if he was the one for her!

What indicates that you're his Eve or that he's your Adam if merely missing
that person and believing in your heart at that moment is not enough?

ThoughtsAboutLove

Expressing feelings is hard.
Life has its ways to surprise you but it also puts obstacles on your path.
I found someone I think might be the love of my life.
I think he feels the same, according to his own words.
But seperated by distance, I don't know if I should open my heart.
A relatoonship is complicated enough when together,
But seperated thousands of questions come up.
What is he doing?
Who is he with?
Is he sincere telling me I am all he wants?
Is he seeing other girls?...
I don't want to put my feelings out there and open my heart not knowing what is waiting for me.
But what if by not doing it I am missing the time of my life?

MyMan

I need a man tall and strong
Who would do me no wrong
A brother with choclate skin
With whom a life I can begin
A gentleman who still knows how to treat a woman
A caring supporting and loving man
A man considering everything his as ours
A man bringing me flowers
Supporting me if I chose as my job to raise our children
A man I can trust with no secrets hidden
I need a man I can adore
For love is everything I am looking for.

Me

SeeingThemHappy

I can't sit here and not think about you
When I see others holding hands
Sending notes that say I love you
Calling each other and making plans

Hearing them argue about
Who loves the other more
Rubbing your feet after work
So you wouldn't have to be sore

Seeing a girl smile as she reads a text
"I love you baby and I already miss you"
Her eyes light up and she giggles
"I love you more, I miss you too"

My heart sinks and tears begin to fall
I don't really miss you, but the thought
Of falling in love and being happy
Happy endings, could never be bought

Matthew Shut

Love'sPhilosophy

The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever,
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In one another's being mingle;

Why not I with thine? 
See! the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven,
If it disdained it's brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea;
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss not me?

Percy Bysshe Shelley

Klimt The kiss

BeautifulMallorca

This summer I went to Mallorca, a beautiful Isle in the Mediterranean Sea. I was a little dissapointed not to hear a lot of spanish, there are mostly only tourists. Local people tend to speak german, english or french with you right away.
Besides that I liked it a lot. I was in the east of the Island. It's very quite and beautiful. The beaches look like paradise on earth. If only there weren't so much people...lol. I got the opportunity to rest and get my batteries reloaded for the rest of the year (hope so).
The south of the Isle is perfect for party people, espacially Germans love it. Palma, the capital is very beautiful. It's definitely worth a trip!

'Love on Top' by Beyoncé

Honey honey

I can see the stars all the way from here
Can't you see the glow on the window pane
I can feel the sun whenever you're near
Everytime you touch me I just melt away

Now everybody ask me why I'm smiling from ear to ear (they say love hurts)
But I know (it's gonna take the real work)
Nothing's perfect but it's worth it after fighting through my tears
And finally you put me first

Baby it's you
You're the one I love
You're the one I need
You're the only one I see
Come on baby it's you
You're the one that gives your all
You're the one I can always call
When I need to make everything stop
Finally you put my love on top
Ooh come on baby
You put my love on top top top top top
You put my love on top
Ooh ooh
Come on baby
You put my love on top top top top top
You put my love on top
My love on top

Baby I can hear the wind whipping past my face
As he turns the night away
And boy your look it tastes like a night of champagne
As I kiss you again and again and again and again

Now everybody ask me why I'm smiling from ear to ear (they say love hurts)
But I know (it's gonna take the real work)
Nothing's perfect but it's worth it after fighting through my tears
And finally you put me first

Baby it's you
You're the one I love
You're the one I need
You're the only one I see
Come on baby it's you
You're the one that gives your all
You're the one I can always call
When I need to make everything stop
Finally you put my love on top
Ooh come on baby
You put my love on top top top top top
You put my love on top
Ooh ooh
Come on baby
You put my love on top top top top top
You put my love on top
My love on top
Baby it's you
You're the one I love
You're the one I need
You're the only thing I see
Come on baby it's you
You're the one that gives your all
You're the one that always calls
When I need you baby everything stops
Finally you put my love on top
Baby you're the one that I love
Baby you're all I need
You're the only one I see
Come on baby it's you
You're the one that gives your all
You're the one that always calls
When I need you everything stops
Finally you put my love on top
Baby cause you're the one that I love
Baby you're the one that I need
You're the only one that I see
Ooh baby baby it's you
You're the one that gives your all
You're the one that always calls
When I need you everything stops
Finally you put my love on top
Baby cause you're the one that I love
Baby you're the one that I need
You're the only one I see
Ooh baby baby it's you
You're the one that gives your all
You're the one that always calls
When I need you everything stops
Finally you put my love...

BeyonceAndJanetInTheSameWeek

I was so happy and overwhelmed to see my 2 divas :) it was definetely worth it, besides that I love Paris

MyHeartIsWhereUR

As the moonlight shines through my window, the sun is still shining through yours.

The only manner to take away my sorrow is to find a way for me to finally be laying in your arms.

It's the sound of your voice, the way you walk, your eyes, your smile, your kiss, your touch, your intelligence and your words! All this make me believe that you might be the man I need in my life.

I see my future in your eyes. Can't wait for the day we will be together to arrive. 

Until then my heart will be right there where you are.

<3 D <3

MonCoupDeCoeur

IfIWereToFallInLove

If I were to fall in love,
It would have to be with you.
Your eyes, your smile,
The way you laugh,
The things you say and do.
Take me to the places,
My heart never knew.
So, if I were to fall in love,
It would have to be with you.
If I were to give my heart,
It would have to be to you,
For you bring things into my life,
So beautiful and new.
Love, so soft and warm beside me,
That I know it’s true,
If I were to give my heart,
It would have to be to you.
I was looking for an answer.
I was looking for a way.
To keep the magic that you bring,
To each and every day.
To live our lives together,
As only lovers do.
It started with a feeling,
And every day it grew,
So, when I knew I was in love,
It had to be with you.

By Ed Walter

 

HopeIsTheLastToDie

What are feelings combined with the physical absence of the person you are in love with?

You may be together in thoughts but is it enough when this absence is prolonged?

You don't want to doubt about the happy issue but life has teached you the hard way that often things don't work out the way you imagined.

And yet you keep on believing!

Because as they say: "Hope is the last to die"

SaveYourSorry (ForColoredGIrlsWhoHaveConsideredSuicideWhenTheRainbowIsEnuf)

One thing i don't need is any more apologies i got sorry greetin me at my front door you can keep yrs i don't know what to do wit em they dont open doors or bring the sun back they dont make me happy or get a mornin paper didnt nobody stop usin my tears to wash cars cuz a sorry i am simply tired of collectin i didnt know i was so important toyou i'm gonna haveta throw some away i cant get to the clothes in my closet for alla the sorries i'm gonna tack a sign to my door leave a message by the phone 'if you called to say yr sorry call somebody else i dont use em anymore' i let sorry/ didnt meanta/ & how cd i know abt that take a walk down a dark & musty street in brooklyn i'm gonna do exactly what i want to & i wont be sorry for none of it letta sorry soothe yr soul/ i'm gonna soothe mine you were always inconsistent doin somethin & then bein sorry beatin my heart to death talkin bout you sorry well i will not call i'm not goin to be nice i will raise my voice & scream & holler & break things & race the engine & tell all yr secrets bout yrself to yr face & i will list in detail everyone of my wonderful lovers & their ways i will play oliver lake loud & i wont be sorry for none of it i loved you on purpose i was open on purpose i still crave vulnerability & close talk & i'm not even sorry bout you bein sorry you can carry all the guilt & grime ya wanna just dont give it to me i cant use another sorry next time you should admit you're mean/ low-down/ triflin/ & no count straight out steada bein sorry alla the time enjoy bein yrself

Written by Ntozake Shange

ForbiddenLove CozIHaveExperiencedIt

TripToMiami

Qui a déjà été à Miami? MOIIIIIIII :)

Sur un coup de tête, avec mes cousines et une amie, nous avons décidé de partir à Miami. Après tout on ne vit qu'une seule fois hein!

Ce ne sont pas des vacances reposantes, loin de la! La nuit on ne dort pas car il y a trop de clubs à voir et la journée non plus car il y a trop d'endroits à visiter, il faut faire son shopping et profiter de la plage (à la limite il y a moyen de dormir à la plage) ;)

Jour 1: Mercredi

Arrivée après 10hrs de vol.

Nous prenons le bus pour aller à l'hotel qui se situe sur SouthBeach (yes babyyyyy). Descente du bus, accueil plus que chaleureux dans la rue --> on nous propose un shot. Alleeeeeez ça commence bien :)

A l'hotel nous déposons nos affaires nous nous rafraichissons et nous allons dîner. Nous ne connaissons rien et érrons un peu jusqu'à trouver Espanyola Way, une jolie petite ruelle ou il n'y a que des restaurants et quelques boutiques sympas.

Ils ont un truc aux Etat-Unis que nous n'avons pas ici, tous les prix (resto, magasins) sont affichés hors taxe, et en plus dans les restos il y a le pourboire OBLIGATOIRE. Dans certains restos on a le choix entre trois montants, correspondants à un pourcentage du total de la note dans d'autres restos c'est un seul pourcentage et basta. Imaginez nos têtes la première fois que nous avons vu une note de resto...hahaha on s'est dit: bon bein on va éviter les restos tout les jours...

Sur ce nous avons fait un petit tour de quartier histoire de se repérer un peu pour le lendemain et nous sommes sagement allées nous coucher.

Jour 2: Jeudi

On se lève assez tôt. On fait notre plan pour notre semaine, ça promet.

Petit déj chez Jerry's Famous Deli, un vrai petit déj à la mode USA (à ne pas faire tout les jours).

Nous voulons aller à la plage mais il y a trop de magasins de souvenir sur notre chemin lol. Finalement nous décidons de les laisser pour plus tard. On va faire bronzette, c'est plus important. La plage est magnifique et l'eau agréable, un délice. Malheureusement il se met à pleuvoir et nous nous réfugions sous un cocotier. Après 10 minutes, retour du soleil, nous prenons une glace sur Ocean Drive et nous faisons un petit tour histoire de sécher. Nous tombons sur un bar "Mango Tropical". Limite on se soule et on met l'ambiance. Faut dire que les cocktails y sont délicieux. Nous retournons à la plage. La nous rencontrons des mecs, très sympa dont un tout à fait à mon goût. Nous faisons la causette et nos restons en contact.

Nous mangeons un bout et retour à l'hotel se préparer pour la fiesta (ce soir on ne dort pas).

Arrivée dans la boîte, The Lux, nous prenons à boire et nous sommes invitées en VIP. Nous avons cru qu'on était super jolies mais en fait ce n'est que du marketing. Ils t'offrent à boire (toujours garder un oeil sur les verres) et t'invitent à la prochaine soirée sur leur guestlist (ils doivent surement toucher une commission par invité).

En tout cas nous avons passé une super soirée terminée par une petite bouffe chez Jerry's ou nous avons de nouveau croisé les mecs de la plage (vraiment pas mal).

Jour 3: Vendredi

Nous nous levons tôt, Nous allons visiter les Everglades, parc national de Floride. C'est impressionnant de voir toutes ces bestioles lol. Nous prenons place sur une espèce de bateau conduit par un papi qui fait des blagues à propos des alligators et des serpents, charmant...

Nous retournons sur SouthBeach ou nous retrouvons nos amis de la veille. Nous mangeons un bout et hop à la plage.

Le soir rebelotte, clubbing (je ne sais plus quelle boite)

Jour 4: Samedi

Hônnetement je ne sais plus ce que nous avons fait la journée mais le soir nous sommes sorties avec nos nouveaux amis. Nous sommes allés à une Roofparty sur le toit du Gansevoort South Hotel. C'était absolument magnifique mais un peu trop calme alors nous sommes allés au Mansion. Très bonne boîte, je vous la conseille, après quoi nous nous sommes retrouvées au Dream. De nouveau une très bonne soirée. Toujours de la bonne musique. Pas comme ici ou tout est commercial.

Jour 5: Dimanche

Journée shopping au Bayside Mall, un immense centre commercial en plein air au port de Miami, très agréable. On y a passé la journée, je n'en pouvais plus... My best buy: un magnifique sac Guess dans les couleurs que j'aime qu'on ne trouve pas en Europe à 128$, à peine 100€!!!
En arrivant à l'hotel un mec nous suit dans l'ascenceur, non mais...il veut mon numéro. Je lui donne mon email. Il est pas trop mal mais je ne donne pas suite à ses avances.

Nous déposons nos achats à l'hotel, petite douche vite fait et c'est parti pour la fiesta. D'abord nous sommes allées boire un verre puis nous avons rejoint nos amis au Sobe. Ils partaient tôt le matin et la nuit fût longue...

Jour 6: Lundi

Journée DisneyWorld, que dire de plus? C'est magique.

Pas de sortie le soir car nous étions fatiguées du voyage en bus à Orlando, mais pas de regrets.

Jour 7: Mardi

La journée commence bien tout en soleil. Nous décidons de faire un peu de shopping sur Lincoln Road. Chaussures à gogo, sauve qui peut! Hahaha

Soudainement une tempete de pluie, nous nous réfugions dans un McDo (bonne habitude de la maison lol).

Après nous allons acheter les derniers souvenirs et retour à l'hotel faire un petit somme avant la dernière soirée. Elle fût bonne comme toutes les autres :) Pas dépensé un sou à part pour l'entrée. C'est bien d'être une femme quand même ;) (mais toujours penser à garder un oeil sur votre verre!).

Jour 8 (dernier jour): Mercredi

Nous devons faire nos bagages et les laisser à la récéption car nous devons quitter la chambre à 11hrs mais notre vol n'est qu'a 16hrs. Nous allons encore un peu profiter de la plage après un dernier petit déj US sur Ocean Drive. Du coup nous avons dû nous laver et nous changer au bord de la mer mais ça en valait la peine.

Après avoir récupéré nos bagages nous avons pris le bus pour l'aéroport.

Au revoir SouthBeach, je reviendrai...

Heureusement il faisait beau quand nous sommes arrivées à la maison.